Happiness

Why should we be happy ?

Problems :
I don't have enough money to live a luxirious life .
I don't have good friends .
My boss is very strict and rude .
I didn't do well in exam,I may failed in exam .
I have a poor health .
I have dark complexion. 
I'm short .
I'm not good looking .
No one loves me at all .
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We have many problems, difficulties ,sorrows in our life. Then how could we be happy .
Right...

Just ask yourself a single question . If we live in stress or feel sad for all our problems  ,then  could all these problems leave us.
The answer is obviously a big NO, right. Instead  this stress maximizes our  problems and sorrows. Do you know why ?

If someone remembers you every time  can you leave that person ? The answer is 'no'. And in the passage of time you have a strong bond with that person and this lets you  never leave that person at any conditions.

Exactly the same also happens with our problems . When we think of it more and more we make a strong bond with  it. Then how could it betray us and leave us. It's not like a heartless lover who breaks up his / her love and leave his / her lover alone . Problems  are trustworthy as these live with us every time.

The difference between a person and a problem is that when a person have a love towards us  he / she will always tries to make us happy and uplift us towards our success, but the problem does the opposite thing . It ruins our life. It snatches our happiness and success from us.

THEN our next question is : how to avoid problems ?

Most of the people thought that if we don't have problems then we will be happy .
But it's not like that. If we are happy then no problem could touch us .
happiness act like a protecting wall against problem and sorrows .

To be happy it's not necessary to be rich. If money could buy happiness then the rich man would never take a sleeping pill .

Happiness lies in everything. I had listened from my teacher that  " There are hundred reasons to cry but thousand reasons to smile ."
We have to notice all subtle things in our life to be happy.
Henry Ford -" Paying attention to simple little things that most men neglect makes a few man rich. "
By doing some little good deeds we can filled our heart with satisfaction and this satisfaction brings happiness.
On Helping a poor or giving a thirsty animal water our heart filled with some sort of satisfaction that we cannot express in word.
Observing nature also brings satisfaction .
Looking at the blue sky ,flying birds,  fluttering butterflies ,green plants , blossoming flowers,raindrops,water bubbles ,gazing at the stars sky at night, feeling the smoothly touch of wind ,the sunrise ,the sunset etc.
 When you feel the nature inside you, you will find yourself in the nature.
There is no who  hates the beauty of the nature. Your love for nature also brings love for yourself 'coz your are a part of the nature.
Each and every person is a part of the nature and you are a unique creation of nature and something unique could never be ignored . Then how could you be ignored by your self . 

Right..

When we love ourselves ,we became  the happiest person in the world .
A happy and cheerful person is capable to  tackle all problems and sorrows .

 A HAPPY LIFE IS A HEALTHY LIFE .